Hitting the wife in Islam: part 2

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The ulama says that a woman can be hit only with using a siwak,yes a siwak this small little thing in the picture .
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Ata' said: I said to Ibn 'Abbaas, what is the kind of hitting that is not harsh? He said, Hitting with a siwaak.
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We need to remember also that we Muslim follow the example of our prophet Mohammed salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam,and he never hit anyone in his entire life: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, never struck anything with his hand, neither a servant nor a woman, unless he was fighting in the path of Allah. Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2328
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You are thinking yes because his wives never did something really big ,you are wrong one of his wives was accused of adultery unjustly and he didn't know if it was true or not and still didn't do anything,wasn't the perfect time to do something violent?
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The prophet was also the best example to his wives: The most complete of the believers in faith are those with the most excellent character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women. Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1162, Grade: Sahih
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So technically Islam is teaching us how to control and deal with our anger cause how many men kill their wives nowadays for stupid things?
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A small joke that brother Hamza used to say in his dawah is that Quran order us to not hit the wife (cause siwak doesn't do anything) but Allah never mentioned to not hit the husband 😄🙈
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Islam didn't come to oppressed women but to defend them and honor them .
(Even if it permissible for discipline, it is still better to avoid it.
 Sharḥ al-Nawawī 'alá Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2328
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How does one of you strike his wife as he beats the stallion camel and then embrace her?
Saḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5695, Grade: Sahih
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At the end everything I mentioned wasn't from my head but if you look and search you will find it yourself bi idni Allah 🖤