Unmarried women feelings

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Subhan Allah, yesterday night I met such a nice sister at the masjid and we started to chat before taraweeh started, so she counted me her story..
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This sister was a very practising. Muslim woman who wore Jilbab and was memorizing the Quran mashaa Allah and she said :" I am a teacher of Islamic sharia at primary school for children and AL hamdulillah I have my own apparement and I have a job I love but there's something in my life that I need but it hurt me to speak about it ,I'm 45 years old and I'm still not married!" and tears fell from her eyes and she continued :" it hurt me to think about this subject because people's tongue are sharp and they always tell me :"why aren't you married?" as if saying "theres something wrong with you! " and not only that they also tell me something that break me which is "now you are too old it's late!" and she cried and cried... *
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She added :"all my friends are married and I really felt alone when I went to hajj I felt the need to go there with my husband and there are so much Fitna everywhere,whenever a brother send me a dm on facebook I say maybe he is the one so I find my self talking a non Mahram!"..
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I saw the sadness in her eyes, the wrinkles on her face from thinking too much and worrying and I felt the hurt in her voice so I took her hand and reminded her that if she didn't got married it's doesn't mean that something is wrong with her but it is a test from Allah, each one of us is tested in a different way! The unmarried one is tested with her patience and the married one is tested with her husband and will be questioned about it..
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I reminded her to not look at what she doesn't have and look at what she have! A good health and a job and a house al hamdulillah Allah granted her so many blessings that many dream to have! I reminded her about Maryam who was the best of the women of the world and who never got married!I reminded her that maybe Allah want to raise her degree in jannah and I reminded her about jannah and that she will be married to whom she wants in jannah 💕 *
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I said:"say al hamdulillah who busied the tongues of ppl on me so I can gain their good deeds On judgement day"😊 and she smiled!

Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age

Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that

includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the

crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. 

and remember "THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME"

( Picture says thats all, "She was abused when she was kid. Now she became granny and pain is there)

Have a Nice day and Great Week Ahead

And possible forward to all friends who have children.

We worry so much about our looks... *

• We worry so much about our looks... *
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  We spend hours in front of the mirror either admiring ourselves when we feel beautiful or haying ourselves when we feel not beautiful... *
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  We spend huge amounts of money on our physical appearance seeking that perfection forgetting that all this. Money could feed a whole city of poor people!..
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  Subhan Allah I was watching a documentary recently and the statistics revealed that between 2017 and 2019 the percentage of people going under plastic surgery raised of 700 %!! Yes exactly! You heard right! The TV presentator said that this money could have rebuilt 20 countries in war!!!! Allahu Akbar! Imaginr if these ppl used that money on charity! There would be no one sleeping with hungry stomach or sleeping in the streets!
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  This seeking of acceptance from people and chasing perfection and beauty left no mercy inside our hearts and made us prefer this new mascara That was lately On the market or this lip augmentation that costed a whole year of working instead of feeding a hungry person or buying dinner for a family. In the streets! What happened to us? *
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  Did humanity forgot that each one of us will be under the dust? Did we forget that our looks we care so much about will be food for worms? What will this beautiful face or that sexy body benefit us in our graves?! What will disobeying Allah to look pretty will benefit us once we will be in our dark grave alone?? What are we living for? Dunya or hereafter? *
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  Learn that if you chase after dunys your choice is clearly made even if you claim the contrary and Allah reads it in your heart... *
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  The believing person knows that she will return to Allah so she doesn't waste S single minute and take care of her soul instead of her looks because she knows that all of this is only temporary and perfection is attained in jannah not dunya! This world is a testing. Place not a resting place so stop building a house in the plane that is taking you to the final destination and remember your graves 

Who are the eternal boys

My dear brothers and sisters, in order to motivate ourselves and remind our selves about the bliss that is waiting for us if we succed the test especially in this blessed month, I wanted to talk about one of the millions of rewards Allah will grant those who will enter jannah which is : the eternal boys /الولدان المخلدون : the servants of the inhabitants of jannah 😍
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Who are the eternal boys? *
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They are the servants of the inhabitants of jannah and their job will be to serve all kind of food and fruits in golden plates to the ones they will belong to and they will enjoy doing this out of love for the person they will belong to 😍 *
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Where were they created? *
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They were created in jannah same as hoor AL ain, they had always been in jannah since the beginning along with AL hoor and the other creations of jannah, they are currently waiting for the believers to enter jannah but as we know time-lapse isn't like ours, when in our world 2000 years pass, in hereafter it's like only a day ..
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How do they look like? *
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Allah gave us a glimpse of their unimaginable beauty he said :
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Holy Quran 52:24
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۞ وَيَطُوفُ عَلَيْهِمْ غِلْمَانٌ لَّهُمْ كَأَنَّهُمْ لُؤْلُؤٌ مَّكْنُونٌ

There will circulate among them [servant] boys [especially] for them, as if they were pearls well-protected.
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They are so beautiful that if you see them you would think it's pearls coming from far from how they will shine Allahu Akbar if this beauty is only the servants of jannah so what about the believers in jannah? 😢😍
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What will they do? *
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They will circulate around their masters serving them anything they wish for :
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56:17

يَطُوفُ عَلَيْهِمْ وِلْدَانٌ مُّخَلَّدُونَ

There will circulate among them young boys made eternal
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56:18
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بِأَكْوَابٍ وَأَبَارِيقَ وَكَأْسٍ مِّن مَّعِينٍ

With vessels, pitchers and a cup [of wine] from a flowing spring -
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Why were they created?
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They are one of the rewards that Allah will grant to whoever enter jannah, to thank the believers for their loyalty toward him ❤
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How many exist? *
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The prophet pbuh said that the last one to enter jannah will have at least 70000 servants 😢 may Allah grant us jannah ameen💕

I wanna go home

• I wanna go home where I will never have to worry about the future... *
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  I wanna go home where no fatigue or disease shall touche me.. *
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  I wanna go home where I will never know again sadness or hardship.. *
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  I wanna go home where I will be with the ones I love forever and never worry about death That separate us... *
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  I wanna go home where I will be young forever and no old age shall come to me... *
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  I wanna go home where I will listen to the Quran with the voice of my beloved prophet pbuh while I look at his beautiful face.. *
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  I wanna go home where I will wake up to the sound of laugh and happiness of people... *
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  I wanna go home where I will lay on the blessed ground Of jannah made of silver and gold.... *
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  I wanna go home where I will talk to my creator for hours and hours and tell him everything and cry while he comfort me with love and laugh from the happiness of being with him... *
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  I wanna go home where I will never have to worry about money or poverty and where whatever I wish for will be right in front of me whenever I think of it... *
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  I wanna go home where all the mythical creatures I've dreamt of will be everywhere around me.. *
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  I wanna go home where I will stare at the beautiful face of Allah while he look back at me with love! Where I will hear his beautiful voice and tell to my self that each hardship I faced was worth this moment... *
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  I wanna go home where I will find mother ayesha and khadeeja and Maryam waiting for me and hug me and comfort me... *
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  I wanna go home where I'll hear the stories of prophet musa a.s and laugh from his jokes ❤
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  I wanna go home where I will live in the castle of my dreams and be a princess of fairytales ...
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  I wanna go home where I will walk with angel jibreel while we talk and be friends with him.. *
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  I wanna go home where I will finally be free from. This prison I live in. This prison that stop me from being with Allah and his prophets and his angels and the believers 😢

For women dress is special

A man was sitting on the edge of the bed, watching his wife, who was looking at herself in the mirror. Since her birthday was not far off, he asked what she'd like as a gift. "I'd like to be eight again," she replied, still looking in the mirror.

On the morning of her birthday, he rose early, made her a nice big bowl of Coco Pops, and then took her to Adventure World theme park. What a day! He put her on every ride in the park; the Death Slide, the Wall of Fear, the Screaming Roller Coaster, everything there was.

Five hours later they staggered out of the theme park. Her head was reeling and her stomach felt upside down. He then took her to a McDonald's where he ordered her a Happy Meal with extra fries and a chocolate shake.

Then it was off to a movie, with popcorn, a soda pop, and her favorite candy, M&Ms. What a fabulous adventure!

Finally she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed, exhausted.

He leaned over his wife with a big smile and lovingly asked, "Well dear, what was it like being eight again?"

Her eyes slowly opened and her expression suddenly changed.

"I meant my dress size, you idiot!!!!"

The moral of the story: Even when a man is listening, he is gonna get it wrong.

How to prepare for Ramadan

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم و الصلاة و السلام على نبينا محمد و على اله و صحبه اجمعين *
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We feel the approach of Ramadan and we can smell it all in the air but are we well prepared for this great month that is better than 1000 months? *
OK, how do we prepare ourselves?
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1- read Islamic books to mentally prepare ourselves and raise our imaan *
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2-listen to islamic lectures to remember our ultimate goal!
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3- make a lot of dhikr and fill our hearts and minds with remembrance of Allah. *
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4- stop watching movies and TV series and anything that lower or harm your imaan because remember that our minds are data they take whatever we feed them with so if you keep on watching movies and unnecessary things, don't be surprised if you find your self thinking about them while you pray or at any moment...
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5- read the holy Quran and let Allah talk to you through it and feel your heart already getting attached to its creator 💟
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Remember that this Ramadan could be the last Ramadan for any of us, so make the best of it, we have this golden opportunity Allah gave us on golden plate! Just one month where just the night of decree is equal to 83 years of worship! So imagine the rewards of this great month!
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Someone once said :"Ramadan is like prophet yusuf as and the other eleven months are like his brothers, he is the kind forgiving that forgave all his other brothers" ,this is the month of forgiveness and repentance where Allah want to forgive you and is waiting eagerly for your comeback so if you want to repent it's the perfect time and if you want to change do it now it's not too late to become someone better 🙏 @hoorie_dawah_sister #ramadan #islam #follow#deensisters #muslims