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(But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly].But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand. ). 4:34
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So there is this idea from people that in Islam a man can hit his wife and that make Islam so violent and unjust,when the truth is we just didn't understand the meaning of the verse .
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So it start talking firstly about the steps. So if for example a husband is angry about something ex the wife not praying or she talk with guys he need first to advice her and leave some time, then to avoid sleeping with her leave some time, then we come to the "hitting part".
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Anyway let's talk about how to hit a wife: *Firstly we should avoid the face :
Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, narrated that the Prophet (salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said, "If one of you were to hit, he should avoid the face..." [Musnad Ahmad]
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*It should not be hurtful (that leave brusis ): Hasan al-Basri said: It means a striking without a trace. The jurists said: It may not break limbs, nor cause a mark of any kind.
Source: Tafsīr Ibn Kathīr 4:34
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*So now go next the nearest person to you and hit them but avoid hitting the face,avoid hurting them and it shouldn't leave brusis and tell me do you still think this is hitting?
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