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ৰজা বিক্ৰমাদিত্যই এবাৰ ছদ্মবেশেৰে ৰাজ্যৰ পৰিস্থিতিৰ বুজ ল'বলৈ ভ্ৰমন কৰি আছিল।

হঠাৎ ৰজাই এখন বজাৰলৈ যাওতে দেখিলেযে তাত এজন চিকাৰীয়ে কিছুমান "ডাউক"চৰাই বিক্ৰী কৰি আছিল।

ৰজাই দেখিলে যে এফালে এটা ডাঙৰ পিঞ্জৰাত একেলগে বহুতো ডাউক চৰাইক একেলগে বিক্ৰীৰ কাৰনে বন্দী কৰি ৰখা হৈছিল আৰু আনফালে এটা সৰু পিঞ্জৰাত এজনী ডাউক চৰাইক ৰখা হৈছিল।

এই সৰু পিঞ্জৰাটোত বিভিন্ন ধুনীয়া ধুনীয়া খাদ্য সম্ভাৰো ৰখা হৈছিল।

ছদ্মবেশী ৰজা বিক্ৰমাদিত্যই গ্ৰাহক হিচাৱে গৈ চিকাৰী জনক সুধিলে,"এই ডাউক চৰাইবোৰ কিমানকৈ বিক্ৰী কৰিছা?"

চিকাৰীয়ে ক'লে,"এজনীৰ দাম এটা ৰূপৰ মুদ্ৰা।"

ৰজাই চিকাৰীজনক পুনৰ সুধিলে,"সেই অকলে থকাজনীৰ দাম কিমান?"

চিকাৰীয়ে পুনৰ ক'লে,"সেইজনী মোৰ পোহনীয়া চৰাই।বিক্ৰীৰ কাৰনে নহয়।তথাপিও যদি আপুনি কিনিব বিচাৰে মই ৫০টা সোনৰ মুদ্ৰা পালে দিম।"

ৰজা বিক্ৰমাদিত্যই আছৰিত হৈ চিকাৰীজনক সুধিলে, "এইজনী চৰাইৰ দাম ইমান বেছি কিয়??"

তেতিয়া চিকাৰীজনে ক'লে,"এইজনী মোৰ নিজৰ পোহনীয়া চৰাই আৰু এই চৰাইজনীয়েই নিজৰ জাতৰ আন আন চৰাইবোৰক মোৰ জালত পেলাবলৈ মোক সহায় কৰে। 

জঙ্ঘলত মোৰ এইজনী লক্ষ্মী চৰায়ে চিঞৰি চিঞৰি নিজৰ জাতৰ চৰাইবোৰক মাতে আৰু এই সহজ সৰল ডাউক চৰাইবোৰে নিজৰ জাতৰ এই চৰাইজনীৰ আহ্বানক বিশ্বাস কৰি নিজৰ লগৰ চৰায়ে মতা বুলি ভাৱি সেই ঠাইখিনিত একগোট হয়,আৰু তেতিয়াই মই অতি সহজে জাল পেলাই সিহঁতক ধৰো। তাৰ পিচত মই এই চৰাইজনীক তাইৰ পচন্দৰ খাদ্য খাবলৈ দিও।তাই তেতিয়া সুখী হৈ আকৌ পিচৰ দিনাখনৰ কাৰনে নিজৰ জাতিৰ চৰাইবোৰ চিকাৰ কৰিবলৈ সাজু হয়।সেইবাবে এই চৰাইজনীৰ দাম বেছি।

আপুনি  সেই ডাঙৰ পিঞ্জৰাটোত একেলগে দেখা চৰাইবোৰ মোৰ এই চৰাই জনীৰ চিঞৰ শুনি জালত পৰা বুৰ্বক চৰাইবোৰ।সেইকাৰনে এইবোৰ চৰাইৰ দাম কম।

ৰজা বিক্ৰমাদিত্যই তেতিয়া চিকাৰীজনক ৫০টা সোনৰ মুদ্ৰা প্ৰদান কৰি সেই জাতিদ্ৰোহী চৰাইটোক কিনি লৈ গৈ ৰাজপ্ৰসাদত এটা সঁজাত চিৰদিনৰ কাৰনে বন্দী কৰি থ'লে।

ৰানীয়ে ৰজা বিক্ৰমাদিত্যক এনে কৰাৰ কাৰন সোধাত ৰজাই ক'লে,"মই ইয়াক কেৱল বন্দী কৰিহে থৈছোঁ।এনেকুৱা দগাবাজৰ আচলতে জীয়াই থকাৰ অধিকাৰেই নাই,যিয়ে নিজৰ সুখৰ কাৰনে নিজৰ জাতিতোকেই ঠগ-প্ৰবঞ্চনা কৰি বিপদত পেলায়।

বিঃ দ্ৰঃ Abdul Aziz choudhury ৰ দেৱালৰ পৰা

Loosing virginity before marriage (in islam)

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Loosing virginity before marriage has become kind of common. No I'm not talking about rape. That's totally a different topic. By this topic I mean girl and boy both of them willing to have haram sex. Astaghfirullah

After the haram sex most of the time the girl and boy act very innocent. They'll be like 'you know I didn't mean to do it but it just happened'.

Seriously? It just happened? Whom are trying to fool? It's obvious that you know what you were doing. It's not like you were unconscious and it all happened cuz of some sort of magic.

The truth this that you couldn't control your desire. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Said: "No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytan is the third one present." You should be aware of it.

Just imagine your husband/wife had sex with other person. How would you feel? Doesn't it hurt? If yes then how could you do the same thing? How could you cheat your future husband/wife? Are you that heartless? Don't you fear Allah SWT?

It's too late I already had haram sex. What should I do? Regret and repent to Allah SWT before it's too late. Before the punishment comes to you. And don't do it again!

Note: Before marriage relationship is called Zina. It's haram prohibited in Islam. A real man will offer you (halal) marriage Nikkah, A loser will offer you (haram) Zina. Don't be so stupid to choose a loser. Remember Allah SWT Always watching at you!

May Allah SWT forgive us and protect us from committing haram. Ameen 🌍

Read and comment your view

You met and dated a girl when you were in the university, she was a virgin when you met her, and you both agreed not to have sex until your wedding night.

The both of you graduated but were jobless for four years. However, after many years of suffering, she later secured a job for you in one big company where you were paid close to £900,000 per month.

Things were going well with the relationship and you finally proposed marriage to her, she accepted but after few seconds, tears start rolling down her cheeks.

You asked her what the problem was; she said '' Am sorry love, i am no longer a virgin i gave my virginity to your boss before he accepted to employ you in his company.

That wasthe only condition he gave me before you were employed or you remained jobless. Assuming you are this guy, what will be your reaction? And for the ladies, can you do this for love? Pls send this to many, and see what they reply you. Its a topic for discussion.

TOO LATE TO APOLOGISE

"Where are you coming from by this time of the night?"

He thundered.

"Honey you won't believe what happened today. Oh God I'm so tired right now."

She replied as she yawned.

"I asked where you are coming from and you are vomiting rubbish. Does that answer my question? Are you trying to pretend you don't know there's no food in this house?"

He said fuming.

"Honey I'm sorry but you should hear me out first. I...."

Before she could complete that sentence, a thunderous slap kissed her left cheek and she passed out on the sofa.

"Get my dinner ready, after that you will tell me why you switched off your phone."

He said as he walked towards the bedroom.

When he noticed there was no response from his wife, he was infuriated.

He rushed towards her to unleash the rest of the demon in him but on getting close to her, he discovered she has passed out.

He was shocked.

Cold sweat appeared on his forehead and raced down his temple.

Fear gripped him.

He began to panic.

He dashed into the bedroom, picked his car key and darted out of the house to open his car.

He rushed back into the house almost immediately, lifted his wife and headed to his car.

As he made to start the ignition, the car key fell off his hand.

He was visibly shaking.

Picking up the car key proved to be a difficult task to him as he couldn't get hold of it.

He succeeded but had to use both hands to start the car ignition. His shaky hands turned against him.

His heart was racing.

He couldn't hold the steering firmly but he managed to drive his way to the hospital.

Getting to the hospital, he alerted the nurses. His wife was rushed into the emergency ward.

He became restless.

After about five minutes, his doctor appeared to him.

"Good evening Mr Collins."

"Good evening doctor, how's my wife?"

He said with great panic.

"Your wife was here few hours ago. She brought your mum to the hospital before going home and if she had been ten minutes late, your mum would have died.

She wanted to alert you but her phone battery went flat. I would have called you but she said she will notify you when she get home. What really happened?"

The doctor asked.

"Doctor, is my wife okay?"

He asked with teary eyes.

"Your mum is in the other ward Mr Collins."

The doctor replied.

He couldn't hide his impatience as he gripped the doctor's shirt.

"What about my wife doctor? Is she okay?"

The doctor managed to pull his hands off his shirt before letting the cat out of the bag.

"I'm sorry Mr Collins, your wife couldn't make it. She's dead.

He was shocked.

Cold shivers ran down his spine.

He began to shake.

Hot tears welled up his eyes and as he made an attempt to speak, they raced down his cheeks.

Liquid fluids leaked out of his nostrils and wetted his lips. His shirt became drenched with sweat.

He wanted to man up but he couldn't.

He groaned in pain and let out a mad shout.

"Noooooo!!!"

But then, it was too late to correct his mistake.

He should have heard her first as requested by her.

He should have controlled his anger.

He shouldn't have laid his hand on her.

He should have been patient with her.

He shouldn't have....

He should have....

But he didn't.

It was too late to apologize.

Don't make such a mistake.

SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!

Trust is one of the keys to happy home

A wife suspected her husband of having sex with their house maid, then she set a trap for the husband by sending the house maid to the village for weekend without telling the husband.

At night, the husband told his usual story "Darling i want to go and watch wrestling in the sitting room" and he left.

The wife silently went to the house maid's room lying down on the bed naked without any light, and the door was open and someone join her on the bed without wasting time and without a word, he had sex with her.

After the fifth round she said, it's enough, i have caught u, so this is how you use to have sex with her, and you will do two round with me and tell me you are tired; fifth round now you are still demanding for more habi?

The gate man shouted and replied "AM SORRY MADAM I DON'T KNOW YOU ARE THE ONE!

Madam shouted "OH MY GOD!", then the husband rushed in and caught them.

Moral Lesson:

Trust is one of the keys to happy home. Suspicion could bring disaster in marriage in every ramifications.

Forget all my plenty friends and give me d benefit of doubt, lets do it baby girl...🥰

WE GAT TO TAKE NOTE!!!!!

🤗🤗 Men attend 2 Women for two reasons, SEX, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

 A man can Love you and not Marry you.

 A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you.

 But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

 Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything the woman thinks is fanciful.

 They think that this woman can build me a home.

 Women are tender, they have the capacity to receive and reproduce.

 You give her groceries, she prepares a meal, you give her money, she gives you peace, you give her sperm and she gives you children.

 You give it discomfort, it becomes your worst nightmare and most men know it.  This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married.

 It's the stability they want.

 Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is Stability.

   Take Note.

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WHO IS A BIG GIRL?

The fact that different guys pick you up every Wednesday & friday night does not make you a big girl. The fact that you wear all the latest clothes in the market, does not make you a big girl. And of the fact that you uses the latest phone and different guys pay money into your account does not make you a big girl... It does not even make you smart! You are only eating up your FUTURE!

THEN WHO IS A BIG GIRL?!.

 A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money. She is not the one who flirts with all the men around her. She is the girl who respects her relationship and marriage. She is never heard but seen. You know her by what she does, her behaviour speaks a lot about her. She is every man's queen, decently dressed... A big girl respects the value of womanhood... She carries herself with more dignity... Stop boasting about the number of men you've slept with my dear..Remember, cheap articles have more buyers.. Build yourself into the woman people will always respect and admire. Never follow men who will make a mess of your life. Be bold but humble, be Godly.. Be hardworking, respect your relationship or marriage, Be ambitious but contempted..Don't make men a priority in life.. Real men will seek after you! Build yourself into the woman men will always want to take home to their mamas.. Not the one they only want to take to hotels and clubs. TRUST ME, if you just trap a man with your body, he'll go one day. A lady without morals and dignity is like a phone without a sim card...

IT IS A WAKE UP CALL LADIES.

#GoodmorningFriends😘❤

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

·         Laziness kills marriage 

·         Suspicion kills marriage 

·         Lack of trust kills marriage 

·         Lack of mutual respect kills marriage 

·         Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)

·         Arguments kills marriage 

·         Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage 

·         Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

·         Poor communication kills marriage 

. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

·         Relating more with your parents than your spouse kills marriage 

·         Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage. 

·         Nagging kills marriage 

·         Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage 

·         Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage 

·         Being too independent minded kills marriage

·         Love for party, money and spending/partying kills marriage 

·         Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage

·         Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life

·         Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage. 

·         Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage.  

·         FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage. 

·         Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills marriage. 

·         Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage. 

·         Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage

·         When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

·         Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills marriage.

.Please, save a marriage today by sharing this.

May God  bring healing to every troubled home and family.  Ameen.

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# প্রেম কৰিছা নিজৰ ইচ্ছাত।

হোটেলত চেক্স (sex) কৰিছা নিজৰ ইচ্ছাতে।

# প্রেমিকৰ লগত যেতিয়াই তেতিয়াই 

ফোনত চেক্স কৰিছা সেইতোও নিজৰ ইচ্ছাতে।

# ডেটত গলে শৰীৰৰ বিভিন্ন অংগত হাত দিব দিছা।

কিন্তু কেতিয়াবা কাৰোবাক সুধিছিলা জানো!

কামটো ভাল কৰিছা নে বেয়া কৰিছা ? 

# দিনৰ শেষত প্রেমিকায় তোমাক ৰাম ঠগন দি গুচি গল। এতিয়া তুমি পাগলৰ দৰে চিঞৰী আছা। আৰু কৈ আছা যে সকলো লৰা বেয়া...!!

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# যি লৰাই তোমাৰ পিছে পিছে ঘুৰি তোমাক ইমপ্রেচ (Impresse) কৰিছে কি গেৰেন্টি (Guaranty) আছে সি যে অন্য ছোৱাল‌ীৰ পিছত নুঘুৰিব ? 

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# তোমাৰ এই ব্যৱহিত শৰীৰটোক বেলেগক মিচাঁ উপহাৰ দিয়তো তোমাৰ অধিকাৰ ক'ত আছে ??

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বিবাহ💑

   শহুৰৰ ঘৰৰ সেই প্ৰথম পুৱা মোৰ আজিও মনত আছে, কিমান খৰধৰকৈ ৰাতিপুৱাই সোনকালে উঠা ঘৰৰ কাম কাজ কৰা, ইমান পৰবৰ্তন ।

    যেনে ১টি মুক্ত আকাশত উৰি ফুৰা পক্ষীক সজাত বন্দী কৰি ৰাখিলে সোনৰ দানা দেখোৱাই ।

    প্ৰথম প্ৰথম কেইদিনমান ঠিকেই গ'ল আমি বাহিৰত ফুৰিবলৈ গৈছিলো কিন্তু তাৰ পাছত মই অনুভৱ কৰিলো মই এইখন ঘৰৰ বোৱাৰী হয় জীয়ৰী নহয়।

    যেতিয়া আমি ঘুৰি আহিলো তেতিয়া শাহুমাৰ চকুত মৰমতো দেখিলো কিন্তু মোৰ প্ৰতি নহয় কেৱল তেখেতৰ পুত্ৰৰ প্ৰতিহে, ভাবিলো নতুন নতুন হয় সেইবাবে বুজাবুজি হবলৈ অলপ সময় লাগিব কিন্তু সময়ে সকলো উত্তৰ দি গ'ল।

   বুজিলো মই এগৰাকী বোৱাৰী হয় কিছুমান নিয়ম কানুন মই মানিব লাগিব যেনে লাহেকৈ হঁহা লাহে লাহে কথা পতা সকলোৰে খোৱাৰ পাছত খাবলৈ বহা কিছুদিনৰ পাছত যেন এইবোৰ অভ্যাস আপোনা আপোনি আহিবলৈ ধৰিলে মোৰ মাজত।

    যেতিয়া মোৰ মা দেউতালৈ মনত পৰি ঘৰলৈ যোৱাৰ কথা কলো তেতিয়া কলে এটিয়া নহয় কিছুদিনৰ পাছত যাবা।

   যিজন স্বামীদেৱে মোৰ মা দেউতাক কৈছিল উচৰতেই তো থাকিব যেতিয়াই মন যায় তেতিয়াই পঠাই দিম আপোনাৰ ছোৱালীক কিন্তু এটিয়া তেখেতৰো সুৰ বদলি হ'ল।

   লাহে লাহে বুজিলো বিবাহ কোনো খেল নহয় বিবাহে কেৱল ঘৰখনেই সলনি নকৰে বিবাহে গুটেই জীৱনতোয়ে সলনি কৰি পেলায়।

     আপোনি এটিয়া আপোনাৰ ইচ্চা অনুযায়ী মা দেউতাৰ উচৰলৈ যাব নোৱাৰে যিমান মনত পৰিলেও মনৰ দুখ মনতে চেপি ৰাখিব লাগিব।

     ঘৰৰ সেই চিঞৰ বাখৰ কৰি হঁহা, জুঠা হাতেৰেই কিবা বস্তু তুলি খোৱা যেতইয়াই মন তেতিয়াই শুৱা নিজৰ মতে ফুৰাচকা কৰা সকলো যে এটিয়া স্মৃতি হৈ ৰ'ল।

   দেউতাই কোৱা সেই কথাবোৰ যে মই দেউতাৰ ল'ৰা হয় ছোৱালী নহয় কিন্তু আজিজে দেউতাৰ সেই কথাটো আত্মবিস্বাস সকলো যেন মিছা হৈ ৰ'ল সত্যৰ সন্মুখত, মোক কেতইয়াও অনুভৱ হবলৈ দিয়া নাছিল মই যে ছোৱালী হয় কিন্তু আজি দেউতাই মানি ল'লে মই যে দেউতাৰ ল'ৰা নহয়।

   মাৰ চিন্তা আছিল মোৰ ছোৱালীয়ে নিজেই কেতিয়াও একগ্লাছ পানী লৈ খাই নাপালে এটিয়া ইমান দাঙৰ পৰিয়ালৰ দায়িত্ব কিদৰে পালন কৰিব?

   এটিয়া মই বুজি পাইছো তেওঁলোকৰ কন্দাৰ অৰ্থ কি আছিল, আমাৰ সমাজৰ নিয়মেই হয় ১বাৰ যি ছোৱালী বিয়া হৈ উলাই আহে তেওঁ নিজৰ ঘৰখনতো কেৱল আলহী হৈ হে ৰয়।

   মই আহিবৰ সময়ত সকলোয়ে কেৱল এইটো কাৰনেই কন্দা নাছিল যে মই তেওঁলোকৰ পৰা দূৰ হৈ আহিছো তেওঁলোকে জানিছিল আজিৰ পৰা যে মই বন্দী এটিয়া মই বুজিব পাৰিছো।

   

এট

Facebook love

You found him in facebook:

You check his Profile picture.

He is handsome.

He inboxed you.

You reply, all excited.

You'll want 2 hook up.

You set a date.

You dress up that Legging With No underwear.

Smelling good.

You put on a make up- fresh breath and new weave.

He takes you 4 lunch @Serena Hotel.

He Takes you for - Drinks At Java.

You two have a good time.

He rubs your hand,

Makes you laugh,

Gives you looks and smiles.

You stupidly fall in love.

It's like you've known him Forever.

He takes you to his apartment.

He makes you feel comfortable and lays u on his bed.

Kiss you passionately.

You love his aggression, strength, power and you give in.

It feels good.

You know it's wrong, but it feels good.

You ask for protection, he says it's too late.

You obey and don't disturb.

He says he loves you and you don't hesitate to say you love him too. He hits it nice and slow

After, he goes to the kitchen to get a glass of water.

He helps you drink it, ooohh man.

You feel special.

"He must be the one" you think to yourself:). 

You get dressed.

He takes you to the taxi park.

He kisses you on the cheeks and says

"I had a great time,"

Gives You cash. 

You smile and say.

"See you tomorrow babe."

He stays silent.

Your taxi drives away,

In the taxi u can't stop smiling.

You get home and inbox him that you got home safe.

He is online, but doesn't reply.

It's unlike him, so you inbox him again.

He doesn't respond.

Minutes later you can't find him on ur friend list.

HE BLOCKED YOU.

Days, weeks, months passes by.

You start feeling sick, weak, loose weight, act strange with sores in your mouth.

You go to the clinic.

Get tested.

Minutes later,

Nurse walks in."I'm sorry. You're HIV Positive and Pregnant!"

".HOW ?"

You don't understand.

Reality hits you.

You walk home.

Scared.

Confused.

You go to the bus stop.

You lay, hopeless, emotionless.

You see death coming nearer.

You look into the sky & mumble a prayer.

That's the end of you.

Don't be that girl!!!Live well. Stop Chasing Material Things. Stop chasing SPONSORS!!

Be A Girl You Want Your Daughter To Be!

TO ALL THE LADIES.

LIVE A LIFE

NOT A LIE.

 🙂

 #SPREAD_THE_NEWS

মূৰ কটা(আমাৰ তেতিয়াৰ মুখত মুকতা বুলি উলাইছিল)

সু-প্ৰভাত🙏মোৰ বাল্যকালৰ হাঁহি উঠা ঘটনা এটাক ক'ব উলাইছো দেই নিজৰ বুলি😜️পুৱাই পুৱাই😬মাজে মাজে মনত পৰিলে অকলে হাঁহো😂

   

               মূৰ কটা(আমাৰ তেতিয়াৰ মুখত মুকতা বুলি উলাইছিল)

সৰুতে এদিন মই আৰু মোৰ এপাদেউ/জেঠাইৰ ছোৱালী জনী লগ লাগি আইতাৰ বিচনাত আইতা নথকাত কি বিচাৰি তহিলং কৰিলোঁ ঠিক নাই৷যেতিয়া আইতা ঘৰত আহিল আমি দুজনী পলাই পত্ৰং দিলো বকিব বুলি৷পথাৰ খন ওচৰত আচিল কাৰণে সজাল ধৰা ধাননিৰ মাজতে লুকাই আছো৷তেনেতে ভাইটি এটাই দেখিল নহয়😬তাক ক'লো আমি ইয়াত আছো বুলি আইতাক নকবি৷সি ক'লে/নক'লে নাজানো৷কিন্তূ আমি আইতাক কেনেবাকৈ দেখি আমাকে খেদি আহিছে বুলি আৰু অলপ দূৰলৈ পলালো৷তেনেকৈ থাকোঁতে আহি পালেহি নহয় স্কুলৰপৰা মোৰ মা৷(মোৰ মা এগৰাকী শিক্ষয়িত্ৰী)😵কৃষ্ণক চিন্তি পথাৰেদিয়ে গৈ মানুহ এঘৰত পালোগৈ৷ তাত বহিলোঁ চাহ দিলে ইফালে আমাৰ ভয়ত টেটুৰ পৰা চাহ পাৰেই নোহোৱা হ'ল😱৷ঘৰ যাওঁ বুলি ওলায় আহিছো তেনেতে সন্ধিয়াৰ চকামকা পোহৰত মাক জপনাৰ মুখৰ পৰাই দেখিব পালো৷আমাকে বিচাৰি আছিল৷ দেখাৰ লগে লগে আকৌ দিলো দৌৰ মানুহ ঘৰলৈ ইফালে আন্ধাৰো হৈ আহিল৷যেনতেনে লুকাই চুৰকৈ কোনেও ক'ব নোৱাৰাকৈ ঘৰৰে বিচনা এখনৰ তলত সোমাই দুইজনীয়ে ভাবি আছো কি বুলি কৈ ওলাই যাম এতিয়া৷শেষত মোৰে মনত মা হতেঁ কোৱা মূ কটালৈ মনত পৰিল৷আমি যেনিতেনি নাযাব কাৰণে ছাগে ভয় খুৱাইছিল মূ কটাই লৈ যাব৷বিচনা তলৰ পৰা উলায় আহি ক'বলৈহে পালো, নিজৰ বুলি "অ' মা আমাক কিবা মূ কটা এটাই লৈ গৈছিল😁😁কৃষ্ণ প্ৰভু যিটোহে কালি গোসাঁনী ৰূপ ল'লে অ' কোব কেইচাত আজিও মনত আছে😏সেইদিনা পেহী-পেহা আহিছিল কাৰণে কোব খাই বেহুচ হোৱাৰ পৰা বাছিলো😁😜️😝

Shopping with Wife

Every year I face the same adversity. I don't know how to circumvent this. Today, I went for Eid shopping with my wife. The sun was scaring me, but my wife was even more scarier. So I decided to face the sun. I mustered up courage to go out. 

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Shop 1. Wife to shopkeeper :- Bhayya, show me some latest Salwar collections. 

Me :- 😊😊

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Shop 2. Wife to shopkeeper : Same design, but show me any other color, please. 

Me :- 😊🙂

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Shop 3. Wife to shopkeeper : Any designer piece in plazo?

Me :- 😑🙁

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Shop 4. Wife to shopkeeper : This suit is nice, but 'dupatta' is not matching. Show me something elegant, bhayya! 

Me :- 😑😕

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Shop 5. Wife to shopkeeper : This is very casual wear. Bhayya, show me for some party wear.

Me :- 😑😠

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Shop 6. Wife to shopkeeper : This kurti is nice, but legging's color is dull. Any other variety of 'chudidar'? 

Me :- 😠😣

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Wife to me:- Next time, you please don't take me to all these shops. None of them has any latest collection. Let's plan for Sunday somewhere else. 

Me :- 😥😢

Requesting all my married friends to have 'dua' for me! 🙏

I decided to tease my wife in my first night. But it's backfired badly..

Iss kahani mein istemal kiye gaye sabhi patra aur ghatnayein kalpanic hain. Ye kisi bhi prakar se sach se sambandhit nahi lakhta, chahe vo jeevit ya mrit ho. Agar aisa hota hai to ye matra sanyog kaha jayega. ---------------Author

she enter in to the room and sat down beside me.

Me: I want to confess one thing to you.

She: I am listening

Me: I am gay.

I am expecting huge reactions in her face. But she didn't reacted as I expected.

She: why didn't you told me this before our marriage.

I am thinking inside. Whether I am said I'm gay or something else. Why she didn't even reacting.

Me: I told about this to parents. But they didn't listen to me. They said I'm ok once marriage done.

Still i didn't see any reactions on her face.

She: ohhh that's ok

I didn't expected that reaction on her face.

Me: what are you ok with this? Are you understand what I said?

She : ya you are a gay and I'm ok with.

Next few minutes I am in fully blank mode. After few minutes

She: I want to also confess something to you.

I'm in different state of mind. So didn't listen what she said

She: again I want to also confess something to you.

Me: tell me

She: I'm also homosexual

Me: whatttttt?

Me: I'm a lesbian.

After listening those words. I think two or three

volcano explosion happen inside me. Now I understand why she didn't reacted.

Me (with angry tone ): why didn't you told me this before.

She: like your parents, my parents also didn't listen to me. They also said I'm ok once marriage done.

I don't know how to react to this. So many thoughts running inside my mind.

She: why your face is turning into red ?

Me( with angry voice): why you & you parents ruined my life.

She: why you reacting like this. You also gay. You also didn't said anything about your sextuality before marriage. Then why you overreacting now.

Me : I'm kidding and I want to tease you. That's why I told I'm gay. But I'm not gay.

She : ME TOO

Me( confusionly): what you mean ME TOO?

she( with laughing face): I know sweetheart, you are not a gay. You want to play game with me. So, I decided to make this game more interesting. What's why I said I'm a lasbian.

I can't explain how much relief I felt that time.

Me: so you not a lasbian right?

She: yes sweetheart:-))& you will know that before ending this night.

At moment onwards I never try to tease my wife.

A Girlfriend Had Invited Her Boyfriend To Her Home To Meet Her Parents. (Funny Story)

A Girlfriend Had Invited Her Boyfriend To Her Home To Meet Her Parents. (Funny Story)

After an evening, a guy brings his girlfriend home, in a very upscale neighborhood. 
They are about to kiss each other to say good night outside the front door, when the guy starts to feel excited. 
With a confident air, he leans toward her with a smile, a hand placed on the wall, and says:

• Honey, would you make me a pipe? 
  Horrified, she answers:
• Are you sick? My parents could see us!
• Oh go! Who will see us at this time? he asks in an already breathless voice.
• No Please. Do you imagine if we are caught? The daughter of the local judge must be exemplary!
• Oooh go! There's nobody around, they're all asleep.
• NO WAY. It's too risky !.
• Oooh please, please, I love you so much? ! ?
• No, no and no. I love you too, but I can not ! 
  "I beg you!" 
  "Give me one good reason," she said. 
  The young man then launches into a passionate argument of ten good minutes on the needs and impulses masculine, of a voice more and more raucous. 
  Suddenly, the light on the stairs comes on, and the older sister of the girl appears in pajamas, hair in battle, eyes puffy, and announces them in a sleepy voice:
• Dad told me to to say either you make him his pipe, or it's me who makes him his pipe. When needed, Mom says that she can go down and do it herself. But for pity, tell him to

Righteous wife, a blessing of Allah

Like most guys at 25 I just wanted to get married even though I didn't have two pennies to rub together, times were really tuff for me back then.

It's been around 6 years since I got married. My wife came from a very wealthy background mashallah, I however did not.

My wife was very understanding with regards to this and wanted to marry me regardless. Alhamdulliah I got married in East London at a cost of £500.

We arrived back to my parents house where we stayed for the next 2 years. As I mentioned earlier I had very little to my name, I couldn't afford a bed to sleep on, and I was stubborn to ask my parents for help.

My brother had a spare used mattress which we decided to sleep on, their wasn't a night i wouldn't complain about the springs pressing into my back.

My wife fell pregnant shortly after marriage, the 9 months was especially hard for her as the mattress was very uncomfortable. She would never complain though, but I knew if it was hurting me, it was killing her. I remember close to her due date, we both couldn't sleep due to our back pain, I remember her saying, 'In shaa Allah after Rumaisa our situation will change, she will come with her rizq and so will her siblings..' My sunflower Rumaisa was born and soon after my fortunates started to change literally overnight. My business started to do well, I brought a bed and then had enough money to finally move out.

A year later, Hafsah was born, prior to her birth I started another business, that too started to do really well. Maa shaa' Allah

And then 2 years later, Ibraheem was born and he too came with his rizq in the form of a 3rd business. Maa shaa' Allah

Why I shared this story???? Continued in the comments...

Second wife, by a Muslim sister part-1

By: A Muslim Sister "Second wife! The words reverberated through my brain. Why? Am I not good enough? Never! I will never accept a second wife! If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back!

Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. It was a woman recently divorced, 4 children. She is having a hard time, he said, she don't know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. "Where is their father?" I asked, "Can't he take care of his own kids? Why do you a strange man have to carry another man's burden? Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her!

I could not imagine myself in a plural marriage. Sharing my husband with another woman. Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I could not fathom him holding her close and whispering loving words in her ears. It was unacceptable. An outrage. After all I have been to him. Wife, lover, mother, doctor, housekeeper. I raised 3 of his beautiful children. How can he insult me by marrying another woman as if I am not good enough? Not pretty enough. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH!

NO! I could not accept that and I vehemently made my stance clear to him. If she walks in, I walk out! Plain and simple. If he is willing to risk our marriage, our life, our children for another woman, then he must go ahead. I will not stand for it!

It all seems so many years ago now. When I thought that life would last forever and that nothing will ever change. But it did…. My husband did not get married to a second wife. After all my warnings and threats of leaving he abandoned the idea. I don't know what happened to the women and children. My guess is that they moved on to another town.

He never mentioned a second wife again and I was happy with that. I managed to hang on to my husband but I didn't know that our time was running out.

His last words to me were that he had a headache and is going to lie down till Isha. 
Continued.... 👇👇👇

Haraam

Hookah / Sheesha Smoking: Safer than Cigarettes? Haram or Halal?

As if our youth didn't have enough distractions and bad habits readily available to pick up, we now have the hookah fad. Step aside cigarette smoking, there's something cooler in town (for our youth to destroy their bodies with)! Different flavors, different settings, a "Muslim export"… how cool is that?
Actually not cool at all. :/ And what's worse is that some Muslims are actually promoting this lifestyle.

First the ground rules: Most scholars now agree that cigarette smoking is haram, i.e. prohibited for Muslims due to its harmful effects on the human body, which directly go against an injunction in the Qur'an. "And do not kill yourselves. Surely, Allah is Most Merciful to you. And whoever commits that through aggression and injustice, We shall cast him into the Fire and that is easy for Allah" [Qur'an 4:29] "And do not throw yourselves into destruction." [Qur'an 2:195]

So, this post is not going to detail issues about cigarette smoking, because not only is cigarette smoking far less socially acceptable, but many Muslims recognize that it is haram (forbidden), even if some are stuck at the makruh (disliked) mistake. Initially, when the harmful effects of smoking were not proven scientifically, scholars hesitated on giving the haram ruling, and instead considered it makruh. However, one would have to be sitting in a cave in Timbuktu not to now KNOW and RECOGNIZE the direct link that exists between cigarette smoking and extremely harmful effects to the body, including lung cancer.

Muslim scholars in the past differed in opinion regarding smoking because of lack of evidence relating cigarette smoking to disease. Those who considered Makruh, regarded this lack of evidence. But since 30 years ago the evidence clearly demonstrates that smoking is injurious to health. The majority of Ahl Sunnah wal-Jama'ah scholars and Jumhur (majority) have clearly stated that smoking is Haram.

Muhammad Afifi also provides a collection of statements of scholars from a wide spectrum of methodologies and madahibs. In this online booklet, Muhammad Al-Jibaly describes many of the reasons for its forbidden status.

The Key to Attract an Amazing Spouse

The key to attract an amazing spouse is to nurture in yourself those qualities that appeal to a person of that standard.

Many of us pine for the perfect spouse – realize he or she does not exist. Pick the best you can find, and learn to live with and cover their warts and weaknesses.

Set your criteria (based on the hadith of the Prophet, peace be upon him) – have they read and understand the Qur'an? Do they live according to Sunnah ? Do they pray Tahajjud (middle-of-the-night prayer) once a week? – then ask yourself what a person of those qualities would like in a spouse, and instill those qualities into yourself.

And always double-check your intention to make sure your actions are to please Allah alone.

When you succeed, insha'Allah , they will seek you out.

May Allah (سبحانه وتعالى) make us all among those who uphold the deen to the highest standard and take it to new heights.
Credits- @islam4everyone_

How to sleep in Islam

Bismillah.. I don't want to scare anyone but I want to inform you about a special Jin called "Al-kaboos" that attacks you in your sleep. The symptoms of the attack are when a person is asleep and imagines something heavy pressing upon their chest, squeezing them and constricting their breathing, hence they cannot speak or move, and they are almost suffocated because of the obstruction of their airways. When the Jin goes away, you wake up immediately in a panic gasping for air. Western scientists call this phenomenon "Sleep Paralysis" but Islam has taught us it is, in fact, a Jin that attacks during people's sleep.
So how do we protect our selves from being attacked by this Jin? We follow the Sunnan of how our prophet Muhammad (saw) Slept.

1. Sleep in a state of Wudu.
2. Make sure to have prayed all you fard Salah before going to sleep.
3. Before climbing into your bed, dust the bed thrice.
4. Recite Subhanallah 33 times, Alhamdulilah 33times and Allahu Akbar 34 times.
5. Read Ayat Al Kursi
6. Read the 3 Kuls ( Surat Al Ikhals, Al Falaq & An Nas).
7. (If possible inshallah) Read surat Al Mulk.
8. Sleeping on your right-hand side.
DISCLAIMER: The scholars have stated IF the symptoms continue to persist after you've taken the above actions then they strongly urge you to seek medical advice just in case there is an underline medical problem.
May Allah protect us all from the Jin. Ameen! 🤲
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