Story of a good wife

It was said that once a brother
saw a girl walking in niqabhe asked for her address and went to ask her hand from her mahrams..
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When he spoke to the sister she asked:"do you pray?
He replied:"yes I do'
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She asked:"did you memorize the holy Quran?" He replied" no l didn't.
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She said:"Let's memorize it together"
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The brother said:" l eagerly look for it"*
The sister agreed to marry him only on the condition that he memorize with her the holy Quran and they got engaged..
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Months after the wedding, the couple came to visit the parents of the sister and once the husband was sitting discussing with the father he asked:"how are
things going on with my daughter?"
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The brother replied:"perfect! Your daughter is amazing! I was blessed by having her as a wife and we both helped each other and we memorized the holy Quran together after months of working on it!"
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The father was surprised he didn't understand what
his son in law meant so he said:"what do you mean?
My daughter had memorized the holy Quran years
ago!
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The husband was in shock, so he turned to look at his wife and then he smiled and understood what she tried to do, he understood that she wanted him to memorize the Quran and to motivate him she pretended to be at the same level as him to get him closer to Allah💖
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My dear brothers and sisters, when you look for a spouse look for someone who is on deen someone who would help you get to jannah not someone who
would drag you to jahanam, look for someone who will help you get closer to Allah and be the example for your future children, and the reason why there is
so many divorces it's that people now marry for looks and money etc, and at the end they get deceived...
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In the ancient times when a brother wanted to get married he said to his mother:" want a good woman"and his mother replied:"let me see with such and
such they have a good daughter" but in our time the brothers say;"l want a tall, blonde, with beautiful body and pretty face" and the sisters would be like:" want
a rich man with a beautiful car.handsome etc" and we
wonder why we are not happy?...
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निकाह

निकाह के नाम पर शादी तुम करो और दो तीन सौ बरातियों के खाने का ख़र्चा लडकी के माँ-बाप उठाएे यह कौन सी सुन्नत है कौन सा इस्लाम है ?

मेहर तुम देते नहीं, उधार रखकर माफ़ करवा कर हक़ मारना यह कौन सी सुन्नत है कौन सा इस्लाम है ?

शुरुआती सात महीने तक बीवी से पूरे खानदान की नौकरी करवा कर उसे खिदमत का नाम देकर जब डिलिवरी का वक़्त करीब अाए तो उसे फिर "मायके" छोड़ आना कौन सी सुन्नत है कौन सा इस्लाम है ?

ज़्यादातर डिलिवरी सिजेरियन अापरेशन से हो रही हैं, पैदा होने वाला बच्चा तुम्हारा और उसका ख़र्चा लड़की के माँ-बाप उठाएे यह कौन सी सुन्नत है कौन सा इस्लाम है ?

अरे लोगों यह डाकुओं और लुटेरों वाली आदतें अपने आप में से निकालो और सुधर जाओ, और क़ौम के हर तबक़े और हर मां बाप को चाहिए कि वह बारातियों को खाना खिलाने का रिवाज बंद करें और लड़के वालों को भी चाहिए कि वो लड़की के वालिदैन से बकवास फ़रमाइशें बंद करें !!

➡मेहर लड़की का हक़ है जिसे लड़की खुद तय करे या फिर वो बाप भाई में से जिसे जिम्मेदारी दे वो तय करे, जहां तक हो सके मेहर को गोल्ड सोने पर तय करें,

🛑लड़के वालों को भी चाहिए कि वो भी कोशिश करें कि मेहर हाथों हाथ लड़की को दे दें, 

मेहर पर सिर्फ ओर सिर्फ लड़की का हक़ होता है वो जो चाहे वो करे जिसे चाहे उसे दे !!

मेहर अदा करने के बाद मेहर की रकम पर लड़के का या लड़के के घर वालों का कोई हक नहीं !!

आइये हम अहद करें कि हम अपने बेगैरती के लिबास पर ग़ैरत की चादर डाल कर शादियों के नाम पर होने वाले तमाम फ़ुज़ूल के कामों को रोक कर निकाह को आसान और ज़िंदगी को ख़ुश गवार बनाएंगे और यह भी तय करें कि हमारी वजह से कोई लड़की किसी बाप पर बोझ न बने !!

इंशाअल्लाह

Tips for Headaches While Fasting

👇🏼Tips for Headaches While Fasting:
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🔹Avoid too much salt.
🔹Take a nap, if you can.
🔹Get enough sleep at night.
🔹Eat hydrating foods at suhoor.
🔹Eat black seed in the morning.
🔹Listen to Qurʾān (eyes closed).
🔹If you can, stay out of the heat.
🔹Avoid too much sugar (not fruit sugar).
🔹Take an ibuprofen/aspirin in the morning.
🔹Eat 2 handfuls of almonds in the morning.
🔹Avoid your phone screen, TV and computer.
🔹Get a high quality fat at suhoor (olive oil, avocado).
🔹Drink plenty of water in the morning (1-2 full glasses).
🔹If you can, avoid excess energy expenditure during the day.
🔹Make dhikr with your eyes closed in a dark room (or duʿāʾ).
🔹Drink plenty of water at night (6-7 glasses throughout the night).
🔹If it's caffeine withdrawal, give it 3-4 days to clear your system.
🔹Avoid really smelly things (putting on a lot of perfume, being around smoke).
🔹Eat suhoor, and eat a decent breakfast!! Not just some fruit and jelly. A decent wholesome meal.
🔹In the future, give up caffeine before Ramaḍhān to avoid caffeine withdrawals (if it is caffeine withdrawal).
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• If your headaches persist, consult your doctor. •
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May Allāh ﷻ relieve your pain, and expiate your sins with it, ʾĀmeen. ♥️

Why is Salah better than sleep?

Why is Salah better than sleep?

Answer Because sleep is answering the call of one's desire and Salah is answering the call of Allah Ta'aala

It is better than sleep because sleep is death and Salah is life

It is better than sleep because sleep is a relaxation for the body and Salah is a relaxation for the soul

It is better than sleep because the Mu'min and kaafir shares in sleeping whereas Salah is done only by a Mu'min

The people of Fajr is a successful people, their faces are exhilarating, their foreheads are bright and their time is blessed

If you are one of them, then praise Allah Ta'aala for His bounty on you

If you're not, then pray to Allah Ta'aala to make you from amongst them

How beautiful is Fajr

Fulfilling it's Fardh will put you in the protection of Allah Ta'aala

It's Sunnah is better than the whole world and whatever it contains

It's recitation is being witnessed as Allah Ta'aala says "Indeed, the recitation of Fajr is being witnessed." Honourable brother and sister, whatever lifestyle a person leads, he will die on it. Whatever lifestyle a person leads, he will be resurrected on it.

If you read this message, you have received the reward that goes with it

if you made a firm intention to act on it and to let others benefit from it, your reward will be multiplied Inshaa-Allah Ta'aala

Do not conceal beneficial knowledge with which you will be rewarded if you share it

Glad tidings to you O you who perform Fajr

Laay la tul qadar (copied from islamic page)

🌺Because the woman who is menstruating is not allowed to pray, she can spend the night in doing other acts of worship apart from prayer, such as:
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✨Dhikr – such as saying:
• Subhān'Allāh
• Alhamdulillāh
• Lā ilāha illa-Allāh
• "Subhān'Allāh wa'l-hamdu Lillāh, wa lā ilāha ill-Allāh, wa Allāh Akbar. (Glory be to Allāh, praise be to Allāh, there is no god but Allāh and Allāh is Most Great)."
• and "Subhān'Allāh wa bi hamdihi, Subhān'Allāh il-'Adheem. (Glory and praise be to Allāh, glory be to Allāh the Almighty)."
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✨Istighfār (praying for forgiveness), by repeating the phrase "Astaghfir-Allāh (I ask Allāh for forgiveness)."
• اللهم إنك عفو تحب العفو فاعفو عنى
Allāhumma innaka 'afuwwan tuhibb ul-'afwa fa'fu 'anni.
O Allāh, You are forgiving and love forgiveness, so forgive me. [at-Tirmidhī, 3513]
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✨Duʿāʾ (supplication) – she can pray to Allāh and ask Him ﷻ for what is good in this world and in the Hereafter, for du'ā is one of the best acts of worship. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Duʿāʾ is 'ibaadah (worship)." [at-Tirmidhī, 2895]
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The woman who is menstruating can do these acts of worship on Laylat al-Qadr. 👍🏼 We ask Allāh to help us to do that which He loves and which pleases Him. May Allāh accept our righteous deeds, ʾĀmeen. ♥️ ___

𝑻𝒉𝒓𝒆𝒆 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒅𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑹𝒂𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒂𝒏:

𝑻𝒉𝒓𝒆𝒆 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒅𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑹𝒂𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒂𝒏:

𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐬𝐭

Prepare your meal early and dedicate this time for dua because the supplication of a fasting person before he breaks his fast is never rejected. Pray for yourself, your loved ones and the whole Ummah. And don't forget our brothers and sisters being oppressed around the world and those who have passed away among the Muslims as they need your dua.

𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐫𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭

This next hour is around the last third of the night. Dedicate this time with plenty of dua and seeking forgiveness as it's a time when Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى descends to the lowest heaven calls out: 'Who will call upon Me, that I may answer Him? Who will ask of Me, that I may give him? Who will seek My forgiveness, that I may forgive him?'" .

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐣𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐧𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞

The last hour should be spent after the Fajr until sunrise with lots of dhikr (remembrance of Allah) and reading Quran.

The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said: "Whoever prays Fajr in congregation then sits remembering Allah until the sun rises, then prays two rak'ahs, will have a reward like that of Hajj and 'Umrah." He said: The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said: "In full, in full, in full." (Saheeh al-Tirmidhi) -Remember me and my family in your prayers ❤️