I want to update my blog a long time back But couldn't do so. Finally today I am doing it or else whole lot of thoughts which are running inside will just get subdue. These days Thoughts gets subdue before the time I thoroughly realize them.
Yes, Life is too short to think upon the Right time and moment. I am not saying dialogue but truly it is fact for me. From past so many days whats going around me and from my observance, I have noticed that Waiting for the right time and right moment for expressing our thoughts and care is of no use. Because we don't know what's store in for us tomorrow. Life is too short and its very unpredictable on the same time. We wait and make plans of conveying some deep thoughts or feelings of ours to our family and friends by taking not person for granted but time for granted too.
Felt like losing a best friend though I am not regretting because my conscience is pure and have no guilt feeling for it but yes I am sad because when you come to know that a person who says that you are her friend Its disheartening but at the end you just cannot help it you feel subdue you become so tired that you don't even feel like clearing any kind of misunderstandings you become quite.
Yes because of friends we tend to ignore our parents just because we are so busy with our own stuff and that too have no significance when it comes to parents. We just totally take them for granted. They are with us all the time so we can express our emotions our love, care to them any time we want. We wait for that particular moment. But why to wait for any moment when we can express it just there only. Why? If somebody say we are humans. Right ! We are humans we tend to take things for granted but ! How much? We should respect their love they give us. And the same way we should love them. Sit with them, talk with them share their experiences. How was their day? What did they do? Make them feel that we love them a lot and they are important to us. They are in our world and that's why our world is complete. They are everything to us. We have grown up so much that we take our decisions not even asking them because we feel that we are bonds kind and are capable of taking our decisions without consulting them but its absolutely wrong assumption we live in . Their experience is more than ours and they will always advise us with better ideas.
Now a days we guys becomes very smart. Whenever we feel something or got new friends that time we never wait for perfect time and moment to share from that and there we make a mistake because thing is not planned, its just spontaneous then how can we think of deciding the right time and right moment. It should be like go and convey your thoughts or feelings. If not this way but surely the other good ways.
We are in happy mood we are enjoying life and having fun because of our friends. We feel top of the world. So don't you think so they should be at least conveyed this that you are special and you make me smile.
Fears is something where we all stuck up, fear of losing friends. But as its said. Dar ke aagey jeet hai and Believe me its exactly like this.
Same goes with apologies, there is no specific time of saying 5 letter word sorry to anybody . We often don't say it because we give more importance to our ego then to our true emotions. But the fact is Ego helps in nothing but our feelings, true genuine feelings helps in maintaining love in every relationship always. Whenever we hurt anybody, Sorry is the word so person can feel important and can light up their heart from the hurt given by us.
I have realized this that there is no time and any specific moment to express our thoughts or feelings. Whether its parents or friends. Every moment is perfect. Therefore it is our moral duty to make them feel, loved and jewels of our treasure box. Just be with us always- is the line which is to be conveyed to them wholeheartedly.
Finally at last two lines comes in my mind,
Zindgai ki is daud main daudkar karna kya hai,
Jeena yahi hai to marna kya hai. ??
Such as life is dearies
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